星期三, 二月 23, 2005

 晶-给我一个坚持的理由,哪怕一句话也好 说:
我只是希望你能记得曾经有人陪你走过一段
 晶-给我一个坚持的理由,哪怕一句话也好 说:
不要记恨我不能陪你走了

这种事情,何谈“恨”字. 对我这样状况的人来说,能有过程就很知足了,不敢奢望。

抬头大笑3声 :D :D :D,洗澡睡觉去。

你我皆凡人 生在人世间
终日奔波苦 一刻不得闲
(你)既然不是仙 难免有杂念
道义放两旁(把)利字摆中间
多少男子汉 一怒为红颜
多少同林鸟 已成(了)分飞燕
人生何其短 何必苦苦恋
爱人不见了 向谁去喊冤

问你何时曾看见 这世界为了人们改变
有了梦寐以求的容颜 是否就算是拥有春天


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老大,坚持住。

Comment by NILO (02/23/2005 07:38)

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一定要再努力,再尝试,不开心又有什么,就当是自虐好了。
分析好原因和形式,明白对方的真实想法,知彼知己。

Comment by NILO (02/23/2005 07:44)

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元宵节快乐!

Comment by 笑容 (02/24/2005 00:09)

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估计是没戏了。很多时候,当事人应该可以分辨得出哪些是借口,哪些是真正的不得已。

她连分手都可以用一个电话搞定,而不是和你面谈,说明她根本不想有所努力或挽回的余地。

父母的反对是意料之中的,但归根究底,是她自己还没有准备好,准备去做你的妻子,同时做小羌笛的母亲。她准备好了爱你,但没有准备好去更爱你的女儿。

其实,没有关系。你总可以找到一个,善良而成熟,的女子。在此之前,女人来了又去,过眼云烟。小羌笛可爱的笑脸抵得过十个晶。

Comment by island (02/24/2005 00:43)

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to island

什么叫“没有关系”,你一个局外人,说话说的好轻松。。。

“女人来了又去,过眼云烟”,可笑,但愿他不是这样想的。。。

Comment by jing (02/24/2005 01:18)

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既然晶MM上来看,那我就多嘴两句了,我嘴巴臭,呵呵

我的体会就是,上海、浙江和江苏大部地区,父母对子女的婚姻大事,几乎是有主导权。当然对我自己来说,天高皇帝远,父母管不到,要求基本是骗个媳妇回来他们就开心了。所以我反而无从考察自己的父母是否也喜欢强势主导子女的事情。总体来看,我父母还好,只要子女愿意而且对方人品不错,是不会阻止的。

我现在遇到的几个情况分别说一下:
1、我自己的原GF,因为父母不愿意子女离开南京,而我又不愿意放弃在深圳的人脉,故最后难以走到一起。当然,当初我也难以给她许诺什么,因为我今后的一切方向,在当时都是未知之数

2、我LP的同事,浙江人,原来在深圳工作,挺漂亮的。自己谈朋友父母基本上是看不上的,父母介绍的她基本也没感觉的,这样再拖下去,难说啥时候就拖到30岁了,难道父母们非要等到自己的女儿到了30多岁嫁不出的时候才愿意放手嘛!

3、同事老家是上海人,父母20多岁去西安工作,现在退休了回上海,同事的妹妹运气不错,找到了一个在上海能买到房的GG嫁了。据说,在上海要结婚,没有房是万万不成的。现在同事的妹生了小孩,伯父伯母跟女儿一起住,对女婿要求极高,高到我都不会去考虑作上海的女婿:(,而且有点点畏惧,我可是老虎啊!哈哈!好在现在也没机会了不是,呵呵。

4、一朋友,和蛙坛有点点搭边,就不说了

当然,哪家父母不希望自己的子女生活得好一些!所以说父母在子女的婚姻大事上发表一下自己的态度也是人之常情。但是现在毕竟不是2、30年前,在不会饿死不会暴富的岁月里,你非要女儿谈的朋友要符合父母的要求,又谈何容易,何况,现在人对幸福的理解也和以前有所不同,代沟那么大,哪里有那么多人既讨女儿喜欢又让父母满意的呢。

我这是以数叶窥林不能见其全貌,希望我自己看到的不代表大多数吧!

我个人认为,如果你真的喜欢某一个人,就自己去决定自己的意志,别人的意见建议都可以听,但是只能作参考意见。毕竟人首先要为自己活着不是,我现在就感觉,很多上海人活得很累:1、父母要为子女做主,累!2、女孩要找个自己喜欢的还要让很挑剔的父母喜欢得主,累!3、男孩要辛辛苦苦挣钱买房买车还要能讨MM喜欢此外还要让对方父母喜欢,累!感觉整个都不是为自己活得

好在我看到,象liba、球球等等一批新上海人,在自己的生活上有声有色有影,希望明天的上海人会更好:)

Comment by tiger (02/24/2005 16:33)

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kao!发出去才发现这评论很长嘛!回头贴到自己的BLOG里头去,估计是目前自己的最长篇了

Comment by tiger (02/24/2005 16:37)

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唉~~~

Comment by runlong (02/24/2005 21:28)

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老虎,哈哈

Comment by kelly (03/01/2005 08:11)

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大青蛙,你信神吗? 像有你这样的经历的人是不多的,你是一个感情丰富及其善良的人,但是你所承受的内心的挫折又却那么多。也许很多人,包括你自己会认为世道的不公平,不过我鼓励去寻找一个能够在你内心提供答案及给予你真真安慰的朋友。你的经历,你的性格其实是很大的一笔财富,其实你是有福气的人,这个朋友会带给你真正的认知。

Comment by Your Friend from USA (03/02/2005 10:49)

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“如果你真的喜欢某一个人,就自己去决定自己的意志,别人的意见建议都可以听,但是只能作参考意见。毕竟人首先要为自己活着啊!”

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