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下午带客户去参观了我的机房，并和客户交流了很多。
期待双方早日合作，签下这一定单。

下午，晶发了短消息给我，她和父母交代了我我的真实情况。

结局是我早就预料到的，也不能怪人家，谁家父母不希望自己女儿嫁个好人家。

晚上晶给我打了电话，让我别再去接她了，呜咽着挂了电话。

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昨天和同事吃饭的时候还说过，上海，浙江，江苏大部地区的父母对子女的婚姻问题具有一票否决权！

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什么时候出去散散心吧

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我第一次谈恋爱的时候，对方父母嫌我穷，最终在经过3个月的努力之后，对方放弃了。失败之后我总在想何谓爱情、何谓婚姻？每每在思索这些问题的时候，我常想起一个朋友告诉我的:真爱无敌！在真正的爱情面前，没有什么可以阻挡的！我常想，真正爱情对于我们这些常人来说是否真得那么不可企及？所有美丽的爱情传说都是以死亡为最后的结果，西方的罗密欧与朱丽叶，中国的梁山伯和祝英台。我开始颓唐起来，可后来不知怎么的，听到了林志炫的《单身情歌》，歌中唱到“爱要越挫越勇 爱要肯定执著...想爱就别怕伤痛”.
在人海中寻找一个与之一生相伴的人，很难！但我们不能放弃希望！
我个人认为，在这件事情上，你要从技巧和方法上多下功夫。我记得前段时间看过一篇文章，也是讲女方父母不同意，但男方和女方共同制定了攻克堡垒的战略、战术和执行方案，在执行的过程中，双方的感情更加融洽了。你是否也可以参照一下？

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既然她对父母说，就说明她有争得父母同意得意愿
既然她想要争得父母同意，说明她是想把你让她得父母认同
既然她想要让你得到她父母认同，说明她想要接受你
既然她想要接受你，那你就应该更加努力

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难！恋爱是两个人的事，但婚姻是两个家庭的事。倒不是说两个家庭将来会如何走动，如何关系密切。而是各自生长背景，生活观念的一种融合。

为人父母的总希望自己的女儿嫁得好一点，物质有保障一些，这也是人之常情。但如果他们拼命反对，并不仅因为物质的原因。女儿就应该多考虑他们的意见。

因为父母对自己子女的了解是透彻的，对长远情形的前瞻其实也不完全是空穴来风。或许他们看到的是热恋中的年轻人看不见的也未可知。

其实，男女之情，不管如何开局，几年后情形总大体相当。婚姻，不管开头是父母竭力促成还是竭力反对，几年后也都是那样。想开点吧。

当事人一时一地有激烈的感受是难免的，但，过个两三年回头看，双方都会觉得真的是云烟过眼。

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进来好几次了，羌，我想一切很快就会过去的

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