星期三, 七月 26, 2006

Our Children are meditation

最近, 我的生活史无前例地被3 个小朋友占了很大一部分,小孩子们天真无邪,无忧无虑,让大人们时而欢笑时而忧。每天看着他们,和他们一起玩,让我发现了很多有意思的事情。

当小朋友感兴趣一件事情的时候,他们都会全神贯注的,一心一意的去做,直到忘我的地步,比如看电视,看书,画画,玩电脑。然后他们会学的很快,记忆的很快。

当和小朋友说话的时候,他们会仔仔细细的倾听你所说的每一个字,然后认认真真的回答你的问题。

当小朋友做游戏时,他们会遵守游戏规则,不懂就问,也会很勇敢的承认自己的错误。

小朋友们都很诚实,实事求是。他们会真诚的向你微笑等等。

在很多人的童年时,都曾经有这样的品德和行为,但如今, 我们成年了,却保留了多少, 又丢掉了多少呢?这都又是为了什么呢?

所以,佛教书里说:'Our children are our meditation. 我们的孩子值得我们沉思冥想'

 

 I  have a nice time with 3kids this couple of weeks. They took me long time to stay with them. They have a power that they could easy let you both happy and angry in 5 minutes. However I have found some interesting things when I watched them. And then I realized that something important things for adults people.

 When Children interested in something such as playing game, watching TV, reading books etc. they would be absorbed in their case until forgetting themselves so that why they could learn quickly. 

 When children talk each other, they would listen carefully first, and answer questions.

 When children play game, they would stand to the rules. They would ask if they couldn't understand. They would apologize if they make mistakes.

 Children are always honest and they keep pure smile for everyone etc.

 I have to say. Normally lots of people keep those behaviors and moral characters, when they were little, but why we lost some of them when we become adults?

So that why a Buddhist book said ' Our children are our meditation'.


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